來訪者是真的出自關心、還是只來八卦?

體會 III

  此處不留人,自有留人處!

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  1. pyalisa

    Tina. Your family love you though they are not able to do too much. There are some scenes that I want you to know.(A) I remember the night……, your father spent the whole night to revisit all your childhood photo and looked very sad. I never saw him so sad. Yor father and mother though they do not celebrate your birthday together, they try to teach you the best together. When you study form 1/2 (I forget the exact year), your mother have a telephone conversation with your father, she mentioned that you love to tell lies. He called you and found that you did not listened to him. He found that his father ability to teach you is so limited and so sad. He said that when you are childhood, you are a good girl. Now, you do not libe with him and hard to teach you. I never forgot his face.(B) At the examination week of your form 1 studying….Chueng Daddy used a very sincere eye contact to say thank you to me.At that week, I go to your home at QuarryBay to help for your examination. Chueng Daddy was sick. He stayed at home and cooked for your family.When he used a very sincere voice and eyes contact to say thank you to me. It is amazing to me. Your mother was not at home, if he did not love you, he did not need to do this. (C) At 1997 summer, I went to visit your father. Your father drived me to airport. The only time without Stella, he immediately bought a gift for you at airport. The immediate action showed his dfficulty.(D) I remembered many nights of "Sleeping bed war" between you and your father when you were young. It is so happy and warm….and admiring. Yes, I am saying admiring. You know, my father never taught and played with me.(E) I have some photos of your mother going Ocean Park with me. Your father was the photographer. She did not smile and seemed to be think of many things through her eyes. I guessed at that time, she was pregnant and was struggling. Please forgive your mother and father.(F) Your grandmother\’s face of sadness/worry when she talked about you. She understood that you are alone but she considered that she cannot live with you as she was too old to deal with your temper. Please try to understand her limitation (especially she was 70 years old with traditional Chinese thinking) and forgive her to say this. She loves you, otherwise, she did not pay for your school fee and air ticket fee to Canada (so, do I). Lastly, I admit that I am not a perfect christian. I have sin. I am not a perfect person. I have temper and sometimes my temper/complaint is out of reason especially at the time of arranging the wedding. If it hurts you, sorry for all these. Same as you and others, I need forgiveness from God everyday. There is no different between you and I before God as I have sin. I am never a "better christian" before God. For any life direction you choose (single or married, with Edward or with Dragon or with others, going to church or not to church, being a christian or non-christian), we all loves you and you are always our family member. Though we may not fully understand you at the same level as your good friends, what we can do is to choose to respect your choice and keep our mouth shit for those things you dun want to tell….Please forgive our limitation.

    3 六月, 2010 (週四) at 15.1715Thu, 03 Jun 2010 15:17:45 +000045 (HKT)

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